Your children owes you nothing, even if you have taken care of them

As an adult, it is normal to establish limits with your parents.Especially when we, even, we have children.However, not all of them seem to understand it.While explaining that she had set certain limits with her mother in a video published on Tiktok, Lisa P received many criticisms.Many have indeed accused him of not being grateful to his mother.

An allegation that strongly annoyed the mother ... and who pushed her to update parents/children's relationships once children have become adults.According to her, once adult, our children owes us nothing and we do not have to have expectations concerning the type of relationship that we want to maintain with them.Here is his speech:

"I had many comments under my video explaining that I have established limits with my mother, especially older ladies telling me that I had to be grateful for everything she did for me.As if setting limits with someone means you don't like it or don't like what it has done for you.Here is what will annoy people: children owe nothing to their parents.And, according to the parents they have had, they sometimes don't even owe them respect.Because all of this must be reciprocal.

With my husband, we hope to have done a good job and that our children will want to have a good relationship with us as adults.But we cannot choose who our children are, or the problems they will encounter, or their personality.So yes, there is chances that later, they want to move to Norway and less to see us (...) It does not matter.They are full -fledged individuals and they owe you nothing because you have dealt with them "

This mother raises an important point: once adults, it is up to your children to set limits to live their own life.Especially when they are parents.And this regardless of the love and respect they have you.